The Good Life vs A Good Life – The Better Newsletter #80

Years ago, I was exploring the Morro Bay waterfront on an Easter Sunday. Three of the most famous restaurants were packed—lines out the door.

People were waiting, not so patiently, looking annoyed, angry, and disconnected.

Just a few hundred yards away, I spotted a lovely waterside park. Several families had spread out blankets and set up a circle of chairs. They were chowing down on tri-tip, tossing balls for their dogs, and strumming guitars.

I thought, “Hmm, those folks at the fancy restaurants will probably drop $200–$300 for a meal—and they look miserable. Meanwhile, these people likely spent $20–$30 on a potluck and they look like they’re having the time of their lives.

That’s the difference between living the good life and living a good life. And the best news is, you get to choose!

ACTION

  • How do you differentiate between the good life and good life?

  • When was the last time you chose connection over consumption? Presence over presents?

  • This week, look for ways to live a good life. Maybe it’s a spontaneous picnic, a phone-free dinner, or a backyard cornhole game with friends.

P.S. Want tips to living a good life that truly lights you up? Grab your copy of SOMEDAY is Not a Day in the Week here.

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