When I asked Dr. Ivan Misner who had been a Force for Good in his life, he didn’t hesitate. “My freshman history teacher, Mr. Romero.” After losing every student council race and promising never to run again, Ivan was unexpectedly chosen by Mr. Romero – despite his classmates’ protests. That single moment of belief changed everything. It gave Ivan the confidence to lead, win elections, and ultimately found BNI, creating opportunity for millions.
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What’s Your Relationship With VUCA – The Better Newsletter #122
When my sons were growing up on Maui, we drove all over the island with the “Book of Questions” in the van. One question sparked laughter and the next, a bigger truth. That life is a mystery. And, perhaps it’s time to re-evaluate your relationship with VUCA—volatility, uncertainty, complexity, ambiguity—and embrace what you can control instead of fearing what you can’t.
Come To Your Senses- The Better Newsletter #121
We all have tigers above and below us, mice chewing our vine of time, and a ripe strawberry waiting to be noticed. We can obsess about the threats… or savor the sweetness of NOW.
I don’t need a bigger boat – The Better Newsletter #119
Have you heard the old parable about the Mexican fisherman? We don’t need a bigger boat. We need to appreciate and enjoy the boat we already have.
There’s a New AI Sheriff In Town – The Better Newsletter #117
In an AI Everywhere World, the fastest-growing jobs may be technical—but the real opportunity belongs to Artisans. Skilled creators who offer mastery, authenticity, and a human touch will thrive.
Better & Better, Forever & Ever – The Better Newsletter #116
My mantra for 2026 is BE the pattern interrupt. Reflect on what you don’t want and replace it with what you do. Trade harmful habits for helpful ones. Life gets better when we focus on what we want—again and again.
The Gift of Gratitude – The Better Newsletter #115
Last year, we went around the table to share highlights of the year and to express our thanks.
When we finished, Andrew said, “Why do we only do this once a year?”
Good question! Why not start every meal with each person taking a minute to express appreciation for something good that happened that day?
Bad News, Good News – The Better Newsletter #114
Many of us don’t feel like we’re the pilot of our time. Months blur into years, and it can feel impossible to get caught up. Taking time to reflect on the people, places, and experiences that mattered is a powerful way to honor what’s been time well spent – and to intentionally pilot the year ahead.
Live In The Now (& The Next) – The Better Newsletter #112
There is a wisdom in being content with what we already have – instead of constantly seeking MORE and somehow believing it will make us happier. Look around right now. Say, “I am enough. I have enough.”
The #1 Determinant for Happiness – The Better Newsletter #111
Harvard research has shown that the #1 determinant of a long, healthy, happy life isn’t diet or exercise – it’s long-term relationships. In an “All-AI, All The Time” world, staying connected matters more than ever.